Help I can’t figure out how to communicate with anyone on this site

Donna, you just communicated with all of us. :) Discussion is the way to get feedback on your questions. If you wish to write someone privately, you need to send them a friend request first. If they accept it, then you can private message them.

Hi Donna, I'm sending you a private message now!

Okay I got it. Am I just sending this to you?