I totally understand that bout your husband, sometimes they just don’t get it. My marriage of at the time 25 yrs fell apart, I’m sure partially to do with illness and the other part our son and his issues, but it is what it is. I’m glad your feeling better. The idea of the annual ana probably isn’t a bad idea either. At the same time have them due a cpk as well. That test is an indicator of muscle damage or acute heart attack. Either or, on me they ruled heart out right away which only left pm. My stuff (ana) didn’t convert to positive until the loose of estrogen, so also keep that in mind, but your comment was correct about pregnancy either helping or hurting, either way tho, those nasty little hormones have to play a roll somehow someway. Just hang in, were always here. God bless